I’m now blogging at sethpackham.com.
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I’m now blogging at sethpackham.com.
See you there.
We just got Wessers’ portraits back from his preschool session. Of course, we basically forgot that it was picture day, so his outfit is a little haphazard, but it helps you see how cute he is, even when we aren’t trying
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| From 2009 school portraits |
We’ve had a fun couple of months, with Wesley’s 5th birthday, a fun trip to the NC Zoo in Asheboro, and Halloween.
| From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween |
| From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween |
| From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween |
| From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween |
| From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween |
| From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween |
| From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween |
| From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween |
| From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween |
| From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween |
And here’s a pic of Aubrey from Sept. 29 when she was 20 weeks along:
| From Fall '09 – Wesley's 5th, Zoo, Halloween |
In my humble opinion, my boys are very handsome. If I get pics from Wesley’s pre-school or some candid shots of Grady, I’ll add them here too, but for now I’ll just post the official school portraits for Collin (3rd grade) and Owen (2nd grade):
Collin – 3rd grade:
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| From 2009 school portraits |
Owen – 2nd grade:
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| From 2009 school portraits |
Taken with my Palm Pre
I think we’re all ready for the fall around here. The weather has been very comfortable (perfect) the last few days, Collin has been playing soccer, the boys have started school, and we’re in September. Can’t believe it’s already September and we’re heading out of another summer.
Owen had a great 7th birthday party. We had just a family party at a local bounce house where Aubrey had some free passes, so it was just the boys and us and a pizza. We had a party room all to ourselves and it was so easy and inexpensive. Owen was desperate for a few certain Lego sets, so he was thrilled to get the one he wanted, plus one more! I guess we couldn’t resist.
| From Owen's birthday and first day of school |
| From Owen's birthday and first day of school |
And, of course Collin and Owen started school at the end of August. Our school had previously been on a year-round calendar for the last two years, but they switched it back to traditional, which we think is good since they get a nice summer break.
| From Owen's birthday and first day of school |
And here’s a funny story that Aubrey passed along to me: Wesley is a very focused kid when he is drawing pictures. He draws with precision and can literally draw for hours. Today he was using Owen’s Captain Underpants book to draw pictures of Captain Underpants and the Giant Turd monster. Owen said, “Why is Wesley always just looking at the drawing section of the book?”, and Aubrey said, “It’s OK, Wesley really likes to draw.” And Wesley said, “I’m a great artist!”
Another thing that’s been fun lately has been going to the lake for boating. Our whole family was invited out with another family, then I’ve gone out with just the guys a couple times at 6 in the morning. The lake is perfectly quiet and still, making for some really beautiful scenery and great wakeboarding on glass. I’m not that great, but I’m good at going for enough air each time that I usually crash, which for me is the only way to prove you’re trying to get better!
Here’s a few shots of me messing around on a wakeboard:
| From Jordan Lake in the morning, August 2009 |
| From Jordan Lake in the morning, August 2009 |
| From Jordan Lake in the morning, August 2009 |
And here’s my favorite shot that I took of my friend John slaloming:
| From Jordan Lake in the morning, August 2009 |
And here’s the best part of going to the lake with family lately: Aubrey has really liked going, which means she thinks it would be cool if we got a boat. So, we’re kind of planning ahead for it, thinking maybe a few years out when we’ve saved up and our youngest kids could handle the trip without much hassle. We figure it would be a great activity for the whole family and the lake is so close and the water is so perfect for much of the year. Woo hoo. Come visit us in 3-4 years and we’ll take you to the lake!
Oh, and Aubrey is almost 17 weeks!
I’ll get to the news first: We’re having another baby! Aubrey is 13 weeks along, and baby #5 is due around February 13, 2010! We’re obviously very excited. It was fun for Aubrey to surprise all of our family in person during our trip. Aubrey made a cute t-shirt that said “bun in the oven” and she walked into the room wearing it. For some others, we had Wesley spread the word and he did it very cute, saying, “I have a surprise for you! We’re having another baby!” then running away while they processed what he had just said. Fun stuff. I’m very happy! And yes, I would be happy with either a girl or a boy
| From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip |
We got back late last night after a very bumpy ride from SLC to RDU and a long and tiring but very fun vacation to Idaho and Utah. We spent the first week on the eastern shore of Bear Lake on the Idaho side, where we rented a huge 7,000 sq. ft. house that easily accomodated all 26 of us (11 adults and 15 kids).
Here’s a shot of all of us in the t-shirts that I designed:
| From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip |
It was pretty posh with a climbing wall, ping-pong table, movie theatre and all the luxury accoutrements and styling of an upscale lodge cabin. My mom and all my siblings were there along with all the grandkids.
Matt brought his boat and we borrowed my uncle Brad’s two jet skis, so we spent every day down on the lake in the water. The water, by the way was crystal clear and bright blue, and was shallow for about 100 yards, making it easy for the kids to play in the water. I made a few runs on the wake board — I was feeling pretty comfortable and even got air a few times (right before face-planting usually). Boats are fun. Maybe in a few years it would be a fun pasttime for my family with all the lakes around Apex.
| From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip |
| From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip |
Grady wants to go out to the boat:
| From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip |
We also had a fun bingo game with prizes, outdoor olympics, morning calisthenics, karaoke and talent show, pinata, ping-pong tournament (Drew was “run-around” champion. I was traditional champ.), a surprise impromptu birthday cake for me (OK, it was a stack of creme puffs) and lots and lots and lots of food. And we had a lot of food. Did I mention food?
| From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip |
| From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip |
We went to Garden City during the Raspberry Days festival and got the famous Bear Lake raspberry shakes.
After a full week at Bear Lake, everyone took off and we drove straight down to Park City (on my 36th birthday) and went to the Olympic Park and Museum and training center. We watched the US National aerial acrobatics ski tream training on the aerial ramps in the pool. That was very cool. Then Collin, Owen, and I rode the alpine slide before heading out.
We spent the rest of the 2nd week staying with Beth and Bryce in Pleasant Grove, in Bryce’s parents’ basement. It was relaxed and we made some fun day trips from there.
We took the kids up to “hike the Y” and they were troopers, as the temperature started soaring and it was very steep and dry and long, especially for our poor little 4-year-old Wesley who hiked in his Crocs with no socks. Owen seemed to be feeling the effects of the altitude (6200 feet at the top of the Y) and the heat the most, and I carried Grady up and down the whole way. Hopefully they will have good memories of the event. Afterwards we took them to the BYU Bookstore for some school gear and the Cougar Eat as an early BYU recruiting trip. We’re pretty sure Collin would hardly consider any other school. Nice.
| From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip |
I also got to go golfing with Bryce, which was fun, and we had FHE with Aubrey’s grandma Smith, where Grady knocked his front tooth back. Aubrey pushed it back in place and it seems to be doing fine.
We also spent time visiting one of Aubrey’s friends from college, more time with Grandma Packham, and a picnic in American Fork canyon where we were lucky to get free rides on a zip line that is set up for church camps.
| From 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip |
Other highlights for our family:
2 bloody noses, 2 hornet stings, 2 bad blisters, 1 pinata crushed, 1 tooth knocked back (on 2-year-old), 1 legitimate lost tooth (6-year-old), one Y mountain climbed, 9 zip line rides, 2 alpine slide runs
Here’s a link to all of my photos from the vacation:
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| 2009 Bear Lake Packham Family reunion trip |
Some friends invited us to crash on the floor of their beach rental for a couple of nights, so we took them up on the offer and headed to the OBX. The house was in Southern Shores, just south of Duck, and not far from Corolla, where we visited the Currituck Beach Lighthouse. We went to the beach three times in two days and had a blast. It was in the upper 80s with warm water the whole time.
| From 2009 July – Outer Banks |
Owen loved just being in the waves, like a fish letting each wave go over his head. Collin had a couple of great boogie board rides all the way in to shore. After each ride he looked back at me and held his fist in the air – the fist of victory! He obviously loved it. And Wesley was Mr. independent, just strolling up and down the beach exploring every which way and playing in the sand. Grady also loved the sand and just being out of doors and exploring in the open breeze.
The Currituck Beach lighthouse was really fun to visit too. The boys love visiting and climbing new lighthouses. The old-school rails weren’t quite up to today’s width standards, so it was a bit nerve-wracking to take Grady up there.
We got back to Apex just in time to buy a box of fireworks and light them off in our driveway with some neighbors. It was a really great and relaxing week.
| From 2009 July – Outer Banks |
| From 2009 July – Outer Banks |
| From 2009 July – Outer Banks |
| From 2009 July – Outer Banks |
| From 2009 July – Outer Banks |
| From 2009 July – Outer Banks |
| From 2009 July – Outer Banks |
After what turned out to be a very tight race between three or four designs, the results are in for the 2009 family reunion t-shirt contest.
1st place, with 31 points (21.67% of total points), the Jet Skier design by Seth:
2nd place, with 29 points (19.33% of total points), the Rays of the Sun design by Aubrey:

3rd place, with 25 points (16.67% of total points), the Stylized Family Tree design by Amanda:

And in case you were wondering, here are the designers of the other entries:
Design 1: “Campfire kids”, by Matt
Design 2: “Grizzly bear and a colorful mountain sunset”, by Drew
Design 3: “Minimalist bear paw”, by Tara
Design 4: “Bear Lake Bash”, by Diane
Design 5: “Papa Packhams: Better Reunions”, by Sara/David
All t-shirts were listed on multiple ballots, so you are all to be congratulated. And my sincere apologies to Jake who submitted a very cool entry a long time ago, but I forgot about it and didn’t find it until after the voting process was complete (I owe Jake big time):
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Other interesting stats:
Submissions have ended for the Bear Lake 2009 Packham Family Reunion t-shirt contest, and we received eight worthy entries. Voting will proceed as follows:
Scoring: A top rank gets 3 points, a 2nd rank gets 2 points, and a 3rd rank gets 1 point. All points are tallied up and the t-shirt with the most total points will be selected as the official reunion t-shirt. The designer will then have a final chance to clean up the design and work with me to get the shirt produced.
And here are the submissions (click for larger sizes):
Design 1:
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| From Bear Lake 2009 – T-shirt design contest |
Design 2:
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| From Bear Lake 2009 – T-shirt design contest |
Design 3:
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| From Bear Lake 2009 – T-shirt design contest |
Design 4:
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| From Bear Lake 2009 – T-shirt design contest |
Design 5:
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| From Bear Lake 2009 – T-shirt design contest |
Design 6:
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| From Bear Lake 2009 – T-shirt design contest |
Design 7:
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| From Bear Lake 2009 – T-shirt design contest |
Design 8:
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| From Bear Lake 2009 – T-shirt design contest |
Non-attendees are free to comment below, and maybe we will sell you a shirt for a small fortune.